Before & After...of a lot of things

So....last Saturday, the 8th of January, I finally got my hair chopped off. It was so time. I couldn't handle it anymore. I never left it down cause it took too much time to do in the mornings. It would take me at least 40 minutes to dry and straighten it...so I would just put it up and be done with it. Then I got a curling Iron for Christmas from my Wonderful Husband, and then I would play with it, and it would take another at least 20 minutes to curl it...and finally i had enough! So I called and made an appointment...and then sat and thought about what I was going to do with it. I had lots of help from friends, and finally decided on a picture I found online. I was so scared cause it had bangs, and I haven't had bangs since I don't know when. I sat here and went back and forth, over and over on if I should do it or not. I asked Victor and he said not to do it too short, and I agreed....but after it was said and done, it was a lot shorter than I thought it was, or that I ever asked it to be...but that's okay. I'm liking it more and more everyday. It's so nice to only have to work on it for about 10 minutes in the mornings, and then be done with it!

Anyways, here are some before and after pics of it! I hope you enjoy them!! PS...click the read more for the "things" part of the post!

Now just some before and after thoughts!

Before I was a wife, I never worried about money, or how I was going to pay bills.

Before I was a wife, I didn't really know how to cook all that well

Before I was a wife, I only worried about keeping my own room clean

Before I was a wife, I didn't have to think of what to make for dinner every night.

Before I was a wife, I thought that parents' money grew on trees, cause they always seemed to have it.

Before I was a wife, I didn't know what it meant to work things out together.

Before I was a wife, I didn't realize how stressful being an adult could be
Before I was a wife, I didn't know how it felt to be one person's favorite person above all else.
Before I was I wife, I thought I knew what love was.

Before I was a wife, I didn't know how wonderful being married could be.

Before I was a wife, I didn't know how much I loved Victor

After I became a wife, I worry non-stop about bills, but love it cause it's part of being a newlywed.
After I became a wife, I still don't know how to cook all that well, but I would like to think I'm getting better.

After I became a wife, I worry about how clean my whole house is when we have people come to visit. I find myself apologizing about the house, even if it's not messy.

After I became a wife, I sit and wonder, everyday what I'm going to make fore dinner that night.

After I became a wife, I have a deeper respect and appreciation for parents, and their ability to manage money with kids

After I became a wife, I realized that its much easier to work things out with another person than it is to sit on them till they drive you batty.

After I became a wife, I noticed that being an adult isn't as much fun as I thought it would be when I thought about it, when i was 13.

After I became a wife, I love being his whole world!

After I became a wife, I know that love is hard, but it's amazing!

After I became a wife, I realized how amazing it is to always have him around!

After I became a wife, I love Victor more now than I ever thought possible!